Your new favourite place to waste time.
A funny, curious, slightly chaotic corner of the internet that also happens to have some depth to it.

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November feature: You’ve never actually met the man you’re in love with

Welcome to the potential trap. Population: every emotionally intelligent woman who ever gave that guy a chance

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The Interviews:

Every month, I sit down with a woman hurtling through midlife for an honest conversation about what this era of life feels like.

Meet this month’s goddess: Kate

This month, I talk to a woman who has reached the stage in life where she’s stopped worrying about being liked, is comfortable in herself and has found a kind of peace that comes from having lived through the shit. BUT she’s also still human, just the right amount of ridiculous and still crying at Miranda Hart on The Traitors.

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*Name changed/photo illustrative because not everyone fancies having their face plastered on the internet. Fair.

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What midlife era are you in?

Ten questions.. six possible eras.. potentially uncomfortable levels of self recognition.

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Fancy falling down a rabbit hole?

Psychology, spirituality, the human mind, the mystical universe and all the wonderfully weird things in between. Go on.. pull a thread.

A little pause…

Three little questions to take into the month ahead. No journalling required, take them to the shower if that’s more your thing.

  1. What do you want to let go of this month?

  2. What do you need more of in your life?

  3. What’s one thing you can do for yourself?

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Your Tarot card for November: Three of Pentacles

Pick a lane & trust
your gifts

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